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 I woke up on Saturday and could not get over the fact that I didn't have to do anything. Seriously. Nothing?! What is this life?

I spent most of yesterday with friends. Had a long walk around one of the lakes here with a friends, and with her roommate's adorable pomeranian (Pushkin! So cute). Then I went to a party, and ended up drinking and crashing at my friend's (too broke to Uber, didn't trust myself behind the wheel). When we woke up, she had a massive craving for eggs benedict florentine style, so we went grocery shopping and made these amazing open-faced sandwiches. English muffin + feta cheese + spinach + egg with soft yolk + tomato gravy. It was so amazing.

I do have to go to work tomorrow, but it may not even be a full day of work. If I can get everything done that I need to get done, then I won't have to stay a full day. I'm really thankful that my boss respects my time. He is the one that mentioned it would be good for me to have a five-day weekend, and that we should try to keep it that way.

I'm debating whether to text Matt and try to find time to drop some things off/maybe get coffee. I have a rolling pin of his, which I didn't think anything of, but he texted me a month back looking for it. Turns out it was his great grandmother's. When I apologized profusely and offered to get it to him, he said to keep it - with his warm regards. I feel weird about it. So I think I need to return that ... at some point. I think it's important that we have space, but I also really want to make sure he's ok. But I also don't want this detail to get lost or to become bigger than it is ... 

Ugh just thinking about it makes me anxious. Maybe that's not a great idea. 

Date: 2016-03-14 02:18 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] novel_machinist
I think it's been a bit too soon to ask if he wants to get coffee. Dropping off a family tied item is understandable, but IDK. I'd be worried that asking to hang out would make me seem "interested".

Date: 2016-03-17 12:46 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] novel_machinist
He may be more comfortable with a mutual party dropping the items off, or you dropping them off when he's not there. I know that I'm not you, but I think that even if my ex didn't move back home, it would have been impossible to keep civil with him. He saw every outreach as me "re-thinking my phase" and when that didn't pan out he got snippy.

It was a mutual choice to stop taking each other's shit in the worst way, I suppose.

Take care of yourself.


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